Family Laws in Arizona are not keeping up with changing times.
In Arizona, and throughout The United States, more or less, offers unmarried couples with two options. Either get married, or essentially be treated as completely unrelated people. This is dangerous for a lot of reasons. First of all, it puts pressure on couple to get married irresponsibly, and subsequently deal with the horrors (emotionally, legally, and financially) of divorce. It is also horrendous towards people who have been cohabitating together for years and will essentially receive no assets from their partner if their partner dies or they split up. When a child is in the mix, it can get even messier.
Common misconceptions about cohabitating couples and Unmarried Parents.
Everybody’s doing it. While many people are cohabiting, half of people are living alone or living in a marriage.
Though, Cohabitating is a good way to test out a future marriage. While this would make a lot of sense and be a logical thing to do, recent studies have shown that cohabitation to test marriage compatibility experience divorce after eventual marriage at a higher rate than those who did not live together. This is commonly referred to as the Cohabitation Effect. It is a popular test used by many unmarried parents in Arizona.
However, couples that move in together after getting engaged do not experience this spike in divorce once married. This makes sense when you think about it. Couples who end up marrying after living together may do so out of convenience. It would just make sense to get married after living together for a long time. This sort of ‘drifting’ into marriage seems to end with couples drifting out. The commitment in getting engaged seems to make the difference.
Cohabitation is easy. Living together will always have its challenges, period. Just because a marriage license is not involved doesn’t mean cohabitating couples don’t live almost exactly the same as married couples.
Cohabitation is the same thing as marriage. While very similar, cohabitation and marriage are very different as well. Married couples receive asset protection and tax breaks when married. Unfortunately, in the United States, cohabiting couples do not have the same privileges.
Thus, in a lot of cases, Cohabitation is bad. Cohabitation could be the best situation for a couple. It could also go wrong. Like a marriage, cohabitation depends on the people involved. The only inherently ‘bad’ thing about cohabitating is the lack of legal support compared to marriage.
What steps should unmarried parents take to ensure they are considered the legal parents of their child?
If you are unmarried parents, you should make sure that you are considered the legal guardian of your child. Thus, it is possible that parent’s name can be added to a birth certificate through a state’s Bureau of Vital Statistics. Additionally, in some places unmarried fathers must sign an affidavit or acknowledgement of paternity. While this isn’t required in all places, it is a good idea to do. Writing, signing, and notarizing a statement that acknowledges the father’s paternity is an added step that can come in handy later on down the road. This statement can also be legally filed along with the child’s birth certificate.
Is there nothing we can do to receive protections that married people have?
Unmarried parents are couples that can